choose ur Beloved or ur future

If u have to choose someday between your beloved and your future, what are u going to do if u know that your future is going to be destroyed by choosing the girl that you dreamed to marry her long nights and days here your mind will never forgive you because you also thought many times to make a good and serious plan for a perfect future . But in fact your emotions guided you to follow your heart and burn your thoughts and plans by the fire of your love and here you are trying to convince your self that you'll make another plan for another future .But in fact
the chance that u had, never comes again and the luck never knock your door that u wrote in it " I have chosen my love " . Or u r going to choose your future and say to your self " the human being is social by nature and as I loved before I'll love again " and here I made the decision that satisfy my selfishness because any human being should look to his business. But here and in fact you destroy your love and you said that I have pragmatical view to this life . In addition you didn't know that you destroyed the heart of your beloved that you were trying all the time to save it .
SO HERE WHAT U'LL CHOOSE UR BELOVED OR UR FUTURE ?!!!!

4 me I'll choose my beloved so what abt U ?????????????????????!!!!!!!!

4 girls Imagine the same nd decide

well nice topic .freely speaking you can say that i almost was put in the same situation but of course i prefered my futur.and forever i will choose my futur nchallah,because when i die i want to face my God with concrete work even if i will destroy my heart and the heart of the one i love.do not jump on the conclusion that i 'am so harsh but you can say that i'am reasonable (though i'am so romantic person)

Thank U 4 participation and I do respect ur opinion even I'm against .
what abt the others ?!!!!!!!!!!!!

ah good Idea Nounete thnx 4 participation

the future for me is two people sharing the same path and being 2gether in good and bad .Who said that yr beloved is going to get yr way to reach yr dreams and goals ?For me love means trust ,sacrifice from the two parts ; it is when u can encourage the other and give him hope to achieve his/her aims .From my humble experience love is an additional cause for better future just find the appropriate person who deserve yr sacrifice but believe me Allah has always better choices for us .

Hello,
I do have several questions which I hope somebody will give me their answears...How could anybody know when he finds the REAL love?Should we rely only on our hearts ?Why should we put it this way "Future VS love"?Isn't love the past,present and the future?is it worth it to sacrifice your future over love?I wouldn't say I've been there;in such a situation inwhich I had to take this very vital decision,but I think it's better to choose the answear that you will not regret in the future.That way,you'll be thinking about the two things at the same time.Well,as I've said,I haven't been in this croosraods yet,so my opinion isn't reliable According to the Algerian saying:"Ask the experienced NOT the doctor"
Thank you all.Read you soon!

Although i have never asked my self this question(the future or the beloved) but i think that the answer is so simple or at least we can make it so. you ll say how? well simply we shoudn't put our selves in such situation :we should'nt love (if love exists) before being sure that this is the one that we should love.put it simply we shouldn't love before marriage because there ll be always risk of loosing this beloved so it will be better to preserve it for the one who will continue and share his life withe you.

Oh a love topic that's lovely Black-white please I wanna know where's the love button cause I haven't found mine and I wanna switch it off like you do As far as love is concerned you can't chose when to be in love nor who to love, don't we say to FALL in love? It's a kinda trap! Though everybody wanna fall in love, yaw la toul9ou bia'anfousikoum ila tahlouka


Seriously I don't think they're always opposed, future and the beloved, but I believe love is all about pain! When you're in love rabi ykoun fel3oun!

What to chose? I chose my mother

W_ch nd Black_white nd Clown I respect ur opinions but plz I didn't say that Love is always Vs Future nd I just said Imagine ur self in this situation nd make a decision .
I'm really grateful 4 ur participation mates .

Hello,

Oh! Honestly there are no daisies in winter and the sun hasn't shine for the last couple of days. But I guess a rose will do a pretty good job as well: Beloved, Future, Beloved, Future...No beloved.. well no Future... no, no halt beloved's better... oh!! I am run out of petals!!!

A good topic to ruminte over. As everyone said, I can't see the point where future and the beloved are opposed, but I'd rather say everything is written. Isn't it the beloved a future? A wondeful future.

Personally, I choose piety (Altaqwa) for Allah says: ومن يتق الله يجعل له مخرجا ويرزقه من حيث لا يحتسب

Well, it is really a nice and interesting topic. I asked myself this question;future or beloved,several times and the answer is future sometimes and the beloved other times. I think that the right answer depends on the one that i love; if he deserves i will sacrify not just my future but my life for him, but if he does not diserve the answer will be future of course.

thank U so much chinda 4 ur objectivity . Nice reply

Future or beloved? .....well I already found my self in that situation And to be honest with you I chose my beloved......... although I had a well put plan for my future and every thing was exactly as I wanted it to be ........I fell in love and every thing changed ...At first I hesitated about choosing my loved one but later on when I decided to keep my beloved MY LIFE got better and better so I think that your beloved is your future

HAPPY for you Faith forever..not everybody is that lucky when it come to CHOOSING..!

thnk U mates 4 sharing ur experiments .

well actually is with your beloved that you'll make your future

The future..the beloved..the question is with no easy answer.For what if you long for both and end up with non?
would it not be better not to choose and let be chosen.
A part of me likes to say of a future beloved!

thnx 4 ur opinion the youth ,but any person likes to plan his life better than let it random