What makes you different?

Hello,
I've waited for a long time for someone to give a reply, unfortunately nobody did! So I decided to do that myself.

Yes it's really a very interesting question you asked. What makes us different from everyone else?
Is it our physical appearance, or is it the way we walk or talk that make us different? I guess not. It's true that each one of us has his special fingerprint, and his DNA, but I think this doesn't make one unique. It something more than that, a special feature or a quality that characterises each one.
To be honest I've never asked myself what makes me "me" and not somebody else. Only when I read this topic that I took a moment and thought about it, but I couldn't find a satisfying answer.
I thought also and I tried to recall whether someone had told before me you're unique, oh never ever.
What shall I say to answer the question of the topic, then? I remember that the idea of having a sister that looks like me ( I mean twin) always bothered me and I thanked God that I'm not twin. Now I laugh when I remember how I used to think.
What makes me different is the way I think, for I'm sure that nobody on this planet thinks the way I do.
But the problem for me is not what makes one different, but whether people accept that one is not like the others or not?

Read you soon.

Thanks for this topic it is interesting.I think knowing one self needs the confrontation with the OTHER,one can't discover if he is special or not except if there is something in him which is different from the others.I might not be correct but This is my point of view.

Hello mates.Thank you Hush for this topic as well as for clarifying it since I had a little problem in understanding what was it about.I think the way I react towards problems is a kind of my "trade mark".Whan facing a trouble,I isolate my self from people and try to solve it alone.People often have the wrong idea about my behaviour during that time;they think I'm too proud to talk with them and that I'm arrogant,or even thah I'm trying to ditch them or neglet them.The fact is;however,the oppsite.I have been advised that this kind of thinking and behaving is neither healthy nor helpful,but what can I do?that's just the way I am.People look at me strangely and that makes me feel DIFFERENT than everybody.As already been said:"knowing oneself makes oneself feel comfotable about oneself ".I hope I've been clear enough

Thank you and read you soon.

well..I think people like to hear that they are different..I personally do though what i've heard might be nothing but a shallow opinion with the possibility of being wrong..I do not know why.
Very interesting..

thank you Hush,and best regards are to you let me go along with what W-ch said about being different,if you allow me ;I think that what makes me different is that I don't accept others advice about something unless they serve my point of view or at least my interest.

Sorry to be materialistic,but the rub was always here .


Anyway it's just a idea thatmight be wrong.

Hi ! Thank you Hush and all the members.
A diffecult question! I think every human is in a class of his own.In other words, everyone is unlike the others because Allah created us diffrent to live in the harmony you have mentioned Hush.
But the most important question I think is How can the one recognize what makes him special?
The way I see it is that the one should take his role in his society on thoroughly and perfectly.
Thank you again! CU

I think nobody can exactly tell you what make him or her different cause for everybody they re different for a plrnty of reasons that differs from each other