betrayal!!!

hello everyone.I'm quiet a new memeber in this forum and i'm trying to introduce a subject for discusion.Everyone of us has,somehow,been betrayed by his friends, and sometimes, by his best friends.I know I have.I do think it's an intresting topic to talk about.it's a good opportunaty for me,for you also,to know how to deal with betrayal.we would be fooling our selves if we neglected this topic because it really exists.any suggestions about the matter would be very needed and very wanted. thank you all.

The best way to deal with 'betrayal' is to be indifferent to the one
who betrays you... Forget and try not to be a betrayer yourself..An
advice from your sister, keep aside these trivial matters, it'll bring you only headache, and melancholy. Please think about your studies, and if you're talking about Betrayal in Ngugi's A Grain of Wheat, this is something else which needs a new thread!

thanks a lot sis and no... i don't mean the Betrayal in A Grean Of Wheat.I understood exactly what you meant.I'll try to work on your advise although it's quiet hard to do so.Good luck for you,me and the rest of the students in the coming exams.thanks again for your relief message.

Thank you too, I know well that it's not easy.. Especially if your dearest ones betray you. But be sure that Allah is with you. Allah never let us down. Thank Him, and ask Him to give you power to forget.

Keep your smile, be strong, and have a firm faith in Allah.
Wish you success!

Hi everyone.i strongly believe in something , which is : nothing makes me worry or upset in this world only if i :

1-make something angers GOD

2-make or say something which harms or makes my dear parents angry.

This is my principle , i don't care about anything else .

U may ask me : what about friends. Let me tell u something .Friends are good , but a friend , you must neither love him nor hate him .Coz it 'll come the time when things change and people change also. So i don't care if people or friends change.and the one who worries about his or her friend , he is obsolutly mistaken , and he is the betryal , coz real friends will be buried in one grave.i am sure u got me. U must be clever how to deal with things.

Fortunetly it is not a prophet who said this saying

Unfortunatly i did.